Last Updated:June 30, 2025, 12:05 IST
Building friendships doesn’t have to be hard. Here’s how parents can gently guide their kids toward better social skills and lasting bonds.
Kids notice not just what you say, but how you interact. (AI Generated Image)
Making friends is a vital part of a child’s social and emotional development. But not every child finds it easy. Whether due to shyness, anxiety, a new school environment, or simply being different from peers, some children face challenges when it comes to forming friendships.
Thankfully, small yet purposeful steps can make a big difference. By creating supportive environments, teaching simple social skills, and modelling the very behaviour they need to learn, parents can gently guide their children toward forming warm, lasting connections.
Here are some practical and effective ways to help your child ease into social circles and build genuine friendships.
Join Small Group Activities: Enroll your child in manageable group settings like a local art class, dance workshop, book club, or sports team. These shared-interest environments naturally encourage interaction and provide structured ways to talk, play, and support one another. When kids engage in something they enjoy, it often becomes the bridge to meaningful friendships .
Boost Their Confidence: Self-assured kids are more likely to initiate play and take social risks. Celebrate small achievements, like when they are approaching someone new or joining a group. And most importantly, avoid negative comparisons. Instead, help them see failure as feedback and build resilience with each attempt.
Organise One-on-One Playdates: Large crowds can overwhelm an introverted child. In contrast, a relaxed, familiar setting with one or two peers offers the safety to open up and bond. Home-based or park playdates centred around simple activities like board games, drawing, and outdoor play allow children the time and comfort to build trust and connection. Start this by inviting a neighbour kid or a school friend.
Develop Their Social Skills: Many children struggle not from a lack of desire, but from uncertainty in social scenarios. A simple and fun way to help is through role-play. Act as their friend and let them practise key interactions.
Try these:
“Hi, I’m ___, want to play?”
“Can I join your game?”
“That’s okay, maybe next time!”
“I like drawing, what about you?”
“Here’s your crayon, let’s draw together!”
Practising these short exchanges regularly can boost their confidence and make real-life socialising feel easier and more natural.
Be a Social Role Model: Children are keen observers. They notice not just what you say, but how you interact. Greet neighbours warmly, listen intently, show empathy and demonstrate respectful conversation. This modelling teaches kindness and social grace, behaviours that naturally draw others to your child.
Encouraging friendships isn’t about forcing interactions; it’s about creating opportunities, building confidence and demonstrating kindness. With consistency and patience, even the most introverted children can blossom socially. Start with these simple steps and watch them grow into friendships that matter.
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