How to politely yet firmly set boundaries and say 'No'

Do you struggle with saying a ‘no’ to others or feel guilty by refusing people? Well, saying “no” can feel uncomfortable, especially if you’re worried about hurting people’s feelings or disappointing them. But setting boundaries is not only important for your mental health but it also shows that you value yourself enough to protect your time, energy, and peace. When done respectfully, saying “no” doesn’t make you rude or selfish— it makes you clear, confident, and in control of your life. Whether it’s at work, in relationships, or with family, expressing your limits politely yet firmly builds self-respect and earns the respect of others too. And so, here we list some ways to politely yet firmly set boundaries and say ‘No’:

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